10 Warning Signals That Virgo Man is Using You!

He tells you if a Virgo man doesn’t want a relationship. But if he is using you, men born under this sign give specific cues.

Virgo men are creatures of habit. When they break plans or act distracted, they are not serious about a relationship.

A Virgo man may be playing you if he is inconsistent. He avoids taking you on dates and acts insincere.

1. He’s Too Methodical

Virgo men are known for being methodical. But they overdo it when they are using you. If a Virgo man is playing you, he may be controlling and rigid.

He tries too hard and sticks to routines to avoid emotional intimacy. A Virgo man using you may be more devoted to routines than usual. They use their adherence to schedules and obligations to avoid getting to know you.

If a Virgo man is only interested in a sexual relationship, he is never available when you need him. He always has excuses to avoid spending time with you.

A Virgo man blames his constant unavailability on his need to go to the gym, train, study, or work. His routines and commitments get in the way of your relationship.

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2. He Avoids Making Plans

A Virgo may be using you if he avoids making plans. He refuses to commit to a date. When a Virgo man is only interested in hooking up, he doesn’t make plans to go places with you.

Every time you make a suggestion, your Virgo love interest has an excuse to stay away. He doesn’t commit to a future with you and instead can be elusive.

When a Virgo man is using you, he only contacts you when he needs something. He may text you at the last minute to hook up. When he wants sex, a Virgo man calls you with little notice.

But a Virgo man is using you if he doesn’t think of any plans. He never wants to give you his word and doesn’t want to be seen in public with you.

A Virgo man obsessed with you can be slow to open up. Yet you know he cares because he makes plans. He talks about the future and gets your insight.

3. He’s Inconsistent

A Virgo man using you is inconsistent. He doesn’t follow through on promises. Men born under this sign are reliable. They are predictable unless they have a secret to hide.

When a Virgo man is using you, he is inconsistent. He doesn’t act reliably. Instead of following his typical routines, he acts impulsively. He doesn’t act trustworthy.

Men born under this sign show you they are playing you if they are not steady. They change their stories or make excuses. They act flighty and are not trustworthy.

If a Virgo man is serious about you, he shows by being reliable. But if a Virgo man is playing you, he becomes haphazard. He doesn’t keep his word and leaves you guessing.

If you are unpredictable, you may know how to beat a Virgo man at his own game. Yet mirroring his inconsistent behavior won’t make a Virgo man like you.

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4. He’s Insincere

A Virgo man can be insincere when he’s using you. The only time a Virgo man is dishonest is when he doesn’t respect you. Men born under this sign are known for sincerity.

They can be trustworthy and practical. You would never suspect a Virgo man of being dishonest. When your Virgo man is deceptive, it’s because he is only interested in sex.

A Virgo man who is insincere doesn’t care if you ever settle down with him. He has no attachment to you and isn’t interested in a serious relationship.

Will a Virgo man use you if he is interested in you? When Virgo wants you, he sets the foundation for a solid future. Virgo men don’t use you if they are attracted to you.

One of the signs a Virgo man is serious about you is his persistent and patient focus on you. But if he is using you, a Virgo man doesn’t care about being honest.

5. He’s Distracted

Virgo men take their obligations seriously. They don’t allow distractions to make them late or cause them to miss deadlines. But when a Virgo man is using you, he seems distracted.

He’s not present with you even when with you. A Virgo man shows you he is playing you by acting flighty. Men born under this sign are known for being grounded.

You can tell a Virgo man is using you when he lets distractions interfere with his promises. He doesn’t remember things you tell him and seems spacey when he’s with you.

You may wonder how to make a Virgo man want you. But you can’t manipulate Virgo men. They are attracted to you, or they are indifferent and using you.

When a Virgo man calls you beautiful one moment and then ignores you, he may be using you. He usually backs his words with actions. He may be uninterested if there is no substance to what he says.

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6. He Acts Indifferent

Virgo men act indifferent when they are using you. They are more detached than usual. You can tell a Virgo man is uninterested in you when he shows no attachment.

Virgo men are hard to read in love. They are distant and don’t show emotion. But when a Virgo man acts indifferent, it is because he has no obligation to you.

He doesn’t respect you and disregards your pain or feelings. He only seems interested in sex. Virgo men can be curt and hurtful because they don’t consider your feelings.

His indifference is not a sign a Virgo man secretly likes you. He may be aloof, but when attracted to you, he reveals signals. If he is rude or indifferent, he may be using you.

7. He Avoids Dates

A Virgo man avoids dates when he is using you. He doesn’t act romantic and avoids giving you the wrong idea. A Virgo man using you doesn’t give the impression he’s interested.

He avoids going out to dinner and movies. He only shows up when he wants something from you and makes no attempt to build you up with false promises.

A Virgo man won’t take you on a date and act affectionate if he is only interested in sex. He doesn’t give you false hope that he wants romance.

A Virgo man doesn’t lie about his intentions. He doesn’t take you out dancing and may even skip foreplay. A Virgo man who isn’t serious about you has minimal interaction.

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8. He Doesn’t See You Publicly

When a Virgo man is using you, he doesn’t bother to meet at parties or social gatherings. He avoids seeing you in public and may ignore you when he sees you.

Virgo men are friendly. They don’t shy away from conversation when they see you in a store or on the street. But if using you, a Virgo man only sees you privately.

He doesn’t go out of his way to meet up with you. He avoids you and doesn’t acknowledge you when others are around. He may ignore you or act like you never met.

A Virgo man who dodges you is not interested in a romantic relationship with you. He can be cold and avoid talking to you when his friends are around if playing you.

You may have heard people say never date a Virgo man. But men born under this sign can be rewarding and caring. If playing you, a Virgo man can frustrate you.

9. He’s Unaffectionate

A Virgo man can be withholding if he is not interested in you. If unaffectionate, he is likely using you. He won’t hug you or show affection.

A Virgo man doesn’t cuddle before or after sex if playing games with you. He is distant and cold. Virgo men give signs they are playing you when they are inhibited.

They don’t show they care about you by being warm and affectionate. When you try to hug a Virgo man, he may back away if using you.

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10. He Doesn’t Call You

A Virgo man who is using you avoids communication. He sees no reason to contact you because he has no intention of maintaining a relationship.

He may text you to share when and where he wants to meet. Yet beyond this, a Virgo man remains quiet when using you. He doesn’t make small talk.

A Virgo man using you gives no indication he cares about your life. He doesn’t check in with you. A Virgo man stops asking about your family or talk about your needs when playing games with you.

A Virgo man done with you after a relationship can be cold and indifferent. He may stick around to be friends with benefits. But he won’t call you or maintain a relationship.