10 Warning Signals That Libra Man is Using You!

If a Libra man is using you, he might still be romantic and charming, but only when he wants something from you. He might turn up the charm when he wants sex, money, or attention.

Your Libra man will only see you when it’s convenient, or he wants something. He may cancel plans or always show up late. He won’t do things you want to do, either.

If your Libra man is using you, you may never meet his friends. He won’t post about you online or give any indication that he’s in a relationship with you.

1. He Only Sees You When It’s Convenient

One of the signs a Libra man is playing you is that he only sees you when it’s convenient. He might still spend time with you, but it will be on his terms, and he’ll likely only do things he wants to do.

A Libra man who is using you isn’t going to come take care of you when you’re sick. If you two live far apart, he may only see you when you go to him. He won’t make the effort to come to you.

If it’s inconvenient to hang out with you, a Libra man who is using you won’t see you. He’ll expect you to do all the work. He’s not going to plan dates or go out of his way to meet up with you.

If you’re doing all the work to see your Libra man, he may be using you. Talk to him. If he refuses to change his behavior, it might be time to move on.

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2. He’s Overly Secretive

If your Libra man is playing you, he may be overly secretive. He’s not just going to be emotionally distant or hesitant to open up. He’ll keep many things from you and refuse to discuss what he does each day.

Keeping a few secrets isn’t necessarily a red flag. Neither is not checking in with you 24/7. If your Libra man is overly secretive, you may not know basic information about him.

If your Libra man is secretive about who his friends are, he might be playing you. If he doesn’t even want to tell you what he did over the weekend, there might be something he doesn’t want you to know about.

A Libra man who cares about you will want to open up. He’ll want to share his life with you. If he doesn’t, he might be playing you.

3. He Says What You Want to Hear

If your Libra man always says what you want to hear rather than the truth, he might be using you.

A Libra man who loves you might not want to have a difficult conversation with you, but he will if it will strengthen your relationship. One who is using you won’t do that, though. He will keep telling you what he needs to say to get what he wants.

If you’re in the early stages of dating a Libra man, he may tell you what he thinks you want to hear because he wants you to like him.

As you get to know one another better and your feelings grow, a Libra man should try to be more open and honest with you. If he always says what you want to hear, that’s a sign he may not be serious about you.

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4. He Cancels Plans Last-minute

If you’re in a relationship with a Libra man who constantly cancels plans at the last minute, he might be using you. Even if he’s not, this is a red flag! He should respect your time more.

When a Libra man cares about you, he’ll do his best to stick to your plans. If there is an emergency or something legitimately comes up, he’ll try to let you know as soon as possible.

If your Libra man frequently fails to show up when he makes plans with you, he may not actually care about you. If he did, he’d want to spend time with you. He’d stick to your plans whenever possible.

Talk to your Libra man if he is always canceling on you. If he isn’t using you and something else is happening, he’ll try to work on planning things better to spend time with you.

5. He’s Always Late

When a Libra man is done with you, he might not break up with you immediately. He will stop putting effort into your relationship, though. One sign he’s no longer making an effort is that he’s always late to meet up with you.

If a Libra man is using you, he might still hang out with you. He won’t care about arriving on time. He’s going to do things on his schedule, not yours.

If your Libra man has to stay late at work, he might not tell you. Even if you two have plans, he’ll show up whenever he feels like it.

A Libra man might be late because he’s hanging out with friends or even with another woman. He may still want to meet up with you to have sex or do a specific activity, but he’s not going to care at all about when he shows up.

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6. He Won’t Open Up

A Libra man who is using you won’t open up to you. Libra men can be emotionally distant, but they open up to the people they care about. If he won’t open up to you, he likely doesn’t care.

If your Libra man refuses to open up to you, even when you open up to him, he might be using you. He might not be serious about you if you’ve been together for a while, and he won’t discuss his feelings or personal details.

This is also a sign a Libra man is done with you. If your Libra man is ready to break up, he might not tell you immediately. He will start to pull away, though. He will no longer open up to you and will become emotionally distant.

7. He Puts on a Mask Around You

The dark side of a Libra man is something he may hide from you. The fact that he won’t open up and show all sides of himself could be a sign that your Libra man is using you.

Libra men frequently put on masks around others. They act differently in front of acquaintances and coworkers compared to how they act around their closest friends. The Libra man you initially meet may not be who he is.

If a Libra man is serious about you, he will stop wearing that mask. He’ll show you the real him. One who is using you will continue to wear a mask and hide himself from you.

If you’ve been dating for months and your Libra man isn’t comfortable showing you who he really is, that’s a red flag. He may not want to take off the mask because he’s just using you.

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8. You’ve Never Met His Friends

If you’ve never met his friends, that may be one of your Libra man’s red flags. This might not be a big deal in the early stages of dating, but it could be a sign he’s using you if you’ve been together for months.

A Libra man might not want you to meet his friends if you’re not the only person he’s seeing. If he’s cheating on his actual partner with you, he definitely won’t want you to know anyone else in his life.

If you’ve never met your Libra man’s friends, talk to him. If he’s not using you and there is some other reason for it, he’ll talk to you. If he’s serious about you, he might finally bring you to meet them.

9. He Won’t Post You on Social Media

One of the ways to tell if a Libra man is using you is to pay attention to whether or not he’s open about your relationship. If he won’t even post pictures of you on social media, that could be a red flag.

A Libra man who loves you will be open about your relationship. He’ll talk about you to all his friends and have no issue posting pictures of the two of you together on social media.

If your Libra man doesn’t list himself as being in a relationship online, he might be using you. If he won’t say anything about you online, that’s a sign that he doesn’t want other people to know about you.

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10. He Just Wants Sex

If your Libra man only ever seems to want sex, he might be using you. Be wary if he only invites you over when he’s in the mood.

A Libra man who isn’t using you might enjoy sex with you, but that won’t be all he wants to do. When he cares about you, he’ll take you on dates and enjoy spending time with you doing a variety of other things.

If your Libra man is not that into you, but he enjoys having sex with you, he might stick around just for that. He probably won’t be good at pretending he wants anything else from you.