10 Clear Signs Your Libra Man is Not Interested!

Libra men are social and friendly in general. They are people-pleasers, and they want others to like them. If your Libra man isn’t interested, he may not show that at first.

If your Libra man doesn’t like you and has no reason to want you to like him, he will show his lack of interest. He may be quiet around you and try to avoid you whenever possible.

If you continue to show interest, your Libra man may become rude. He might even tell other people that he doesn’t like you, though he won’t tell you that.

1. He’s Quiet Around You

What makes a Libra man lose interest? There are many reasons why your Libra man might lose interest in you. If your Libra man was previously talkative around you but is now always quiet, that is one sign he’s lost interest.

Libra men are typically social and outgoing. They love to be around other people and enjoy talking to people they like. A Libra man will probably chat with you even if you’re just an acquaintance.

If your Libra man is always quiet around you, that might be a sign he’s not interested. If you go out of your way to talk and flirt with him, but he doesn’t seem interested in talking, he probably doesn’t return your feelings.

A shy Libra man may also be quiet, but he’ll talk to you if you speak to him first! A Libra man who isn’t interested won’t open up and be chatty no matter what you do.

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2. He Never Reaches Out

When a Libra man goes silent and stops reaching out, that is often a sign something is wrong. He might be busy if he fails to reach out for a few days. If he never reaches out, he is probably not interested.

A Libra man who liked you would check in with you and message you, even when he was busy. He would want to talk to you if he was interested.

If your Libra man never reaches out, even when you expect him to, he’s probably not interested. If you’re having a hard time or dealing with personal issues, and he doesn’t check in, he doesn’t care about you.

If your Libra man isn’t reaching out for another reason, he’ll likely explain himself. He’ll tell you if he’s busy or unable to call you. If he isn’t interested, he won’t explain why he’s not reaching out.

3. He’s Critical of You

One of the clear signs a Libra man is not interested is that he will be critical of you. If he doesn’t care about making you like him, he won’t watch what he says around you.

Libra men tend to be people-pleasers. If a Libra man is interested in you, he’ll compliment and praise you. He won’t judge or criticize you openly if he wants you to like him.

If your Libra man is critical of you, he’s likely uninterested. He might not like you, and he has no problem with the idea of you not liking him, either.

Your Libra man might not be critical at first. He may still be kind, even if he’s not interested. If you continue to show interest and don’t get the hint, though, he will become annoyed, and his criticism is a sign of that.

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4. He’s Argumentative

One of the signs a Libra man is not into you is that he will be argumentative in ways that he is not with anyone else.

While many Libra men enjoy friendly debates, they don’t like to argue with people! They hate confrontation. If your Libra man is constantly arguing with you and picking a fight, he probably doesn’t like you.

Libra men aren’t typically argumentative with the people they like. They go out of their way to be agreeable and friendly, so it will be obvious if your Libra man does the opposite and always argues with you.

If your Libra man argues once or twice but shows interest and is otherwise kind to you, that’s likely not an issue. He doesn’t like you if he constantly argues with you and doesn’t do this to others.

5. He’s Rude

A Libra man pulling away could be a sign of many different things, not just him being uninterested. However, if your Libra man pulls away and is rude whenever you talk to him, he probably doesn’t like you.

Libra men tend to be polite. They want people to like them and genuinely don’t want to do anything to upset someone. They are mindful of what they say and how they act around others.

If your Libra man is outright rude to you, he doesn’t care about upsetting you. He doesn’t care if you like him, and he’s not worried about your opinion of him at all.

A Libra man might intentionally be rude to push you away and get you to stop liking him. He may also unintentionally be rude if he’s just fed up and doesn’t know how to make you leave him alone.

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6. He’ll Tell Others He Doesn’t Like You

One of the signs a Libra man just wants to be friends is that he will still be kind and friendly toward you, but he might talk to other people about how he feels about you.

A Libra man might not outright tell you that he doesn’t like you, especially if he still wants to be friends! If he’s just not romantically interested but enjoys your company, he may not show direct signs of disinterest.

Your Libra man will talk to other people about you, though. He may ask mutual friends for advice on gently letting you down or rant to his best friend about the situation if he’s frustrated.

If other people tell you your Libra man doesn’t like you, listen to them. He probably has told him this, so don’t assume they’re just messing with you.

7. He Ignores You

A Libra man may not know how to tell you he’s uninterested. Instead of talking to you, he’ll ignore you more and more until he ghosts you entirely.

A Libra man ghosting you is one of the more drastic signs that he doesn’t like you. If he completely ignores you and refuses to talk to you no matter what you do, he’s not interested!

If your Libra man was interested but changed his mind, he might suddenly pull away and start to ignore you. He’ll stop calling you. He’ll stop responding to your texts, even if he’s free and able to chat.

Don’t freak out if your Libra man ignores one call or text. If he constantly ignores you, that’s a problem. If he just temporarily can’t talk, something else is likely going on.

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8. He Leaves When You Arrive at an Event

If a Libra man disappears when you show up at an event, he might be avoiding you! If he’s genuinely not interested and doesn’t enjoy hanging out with you, he’ll run the other way once you arrive at a party he’s at.

If you always try to talk to your Libra man when you see him, he might start to actively avoid you. He’ll try to keep his distance if he’s uninterested and doesn’t want to be friends.

A Libra man who really doesn’t like you probably won’t want to see you. He might ask mutual friends not to invite you both to parties, or he may keep an eye on whether you plan to show up.

If your Libra man runs off as soon as you arrive anywhere, he doesn’t like you. He’ll likely be glad if you stop going out of your way to talk to him!

9. He Won’t Look Your Way

If a Libra man isn’t interested in you, he’ll probably never look your way. No matter how well you dress or what you do to get his attention, he won’t give you the time of day.

One of the signs a Libra man is playing you is that he’ll hang out with you in private but refuse to be seen with you in public.

If he’s sweet when it’s just the two of you, but he won’t even look at you when he sees you out and about, something is up! Be mindful of how your Libra man treats you when other people are around compared to when they aren’t.

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10. He Won’t Make Plans

If a Libra man isn’t interested in you, he won’t make plans with you. He may show up to group hangouts and parties that you’re at, but he’ll never do anything with you one-on-one.

You might notice that your Libra man never answers when you ask when he’s free. He may insist that he’s too busy and never get back to you about making plans when that’s no longer true.

Even if he won’t outright say he doesn’t like you, a Libra man won’t want to make plans. He’ll always have an excuse for not doing something with you.

If you’re getting a Libra man’s mixed signals, he might make plans with you but fail to follow through. If he does make plans but constantly cancels and never actually hangs out with you, he may be playing you.