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10 Tips to Hurt Libra Man – He Might Not Recover!

Updated December 12, 2024

Hurting a Libra man is easy, especially if you know what to say to get to him.

Libra men are incredibly sensitive, even if they pretend not to be. They want people to like them and will be hurt if it’s clear someone doesn’t.

You can easily hurt a Libra man’s feelings by criticizing him. Insult his appearance, judge his aesthetic, and act disrespectfully toward him.

Flirting with other men might hurt a Libra man, too, especially if you two are supposed to be exclusive, and it’s clear you’re not just doing it for fun. Ignoring a Libra man will hurt him even more.

You can also hurt a Libra man by going after his loved ones. Pushing his boundaries and ignoring his needs will hurt him deeply as well, especially if you’re supposed to care about him.

1. Criticize Him

1 criticize him

One of the easiest ways to hurt a Libra man is to criticize him. Libra men do not handle criticism well, even if it’s meant to be constructive and helpful.

Libra men don’t like to be criticized at all, especially by people they care about. If your Libra man cooks you dinner or shows you something he’s created, he won’t like it if you immediately criticize his efforts.

You will hurt a Libra man’s feelings with your criticisms, even if you’re not trying to hurt him. You might think you’re helping him or offering an honest opinion, but you will just upset him.

If you don’t want to hurt your Libra man, ask before offering criticism. Sometimes, it’s genuinely needed, but you must be mindful of his feelings before you say something that might upset him.

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2. Insult His Appearance

2 insult his appearance

If you want to know how to hurt a Libra man, insult his appearance. Libra men put a lot of effort into their looks, and a Libra man will be upset if you pick at that carefully constructed veneer of his.

You can upset a Libra man by insulting his appearance even if you don’t know him well. You’ll likely touch on an insecurity by randomly picking at something about his appearance.

If you already know your Libra man is insecure about something specific, he’ll be hurt if you insult the part of his appearance he’s already insecure about. He’ll be even more hurt if he knows that you know this is an insecurity.

If your Libra man is trying to impress you, he’ll be hurt when you insult his appearance. He won’t be happy if he’s trying to look good for you and you insult him.

3. Judge His Aesthetic

3 judge his aesthetic

Insulting a Libra man’s appearance isn’t the only way to get to him. He’ll also be hurt if you judge his overall aesthetic and style.

Libra men tend to be creative. They are into things like art and fashion. They tend to pride themselves on their creative minds and the aesthetic choices they make.

Judge your Libra man for how he decorates his home or for his fashion choices. If he shows you any art he’s created, judge him for his artistic choices. Criticize his aesthetic and techniques, even if he hasn’t asked you to.

How does a Libra man act when he’s hurt? He might become defensive. He may also try to change to please you! If you’re someone whose opinion he cares about, he might mix up his aesthetic to earn your approval.

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4. Flirt with Other Men

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If you want to hurt a Libra man, flirt with other men. This might get his attention and make him jealous if you two aren’t dating, but he won’t like it if you’re in a relationship.

Your Libra man likely won’t lash out or make a big deal of your flirting, but he will be hurt. He might feel like you’re losing interest in him and that your flirtations are a sign you’ll leave soon.

A Libra man will also be hurt to see you flirt with others after a breakup. This will remind him that you’re no longer his, and he’ll be heartbroken.

What happens when a Libra man is heartbroken after a breakup? He’ll likely rebound and flirt with other women. He won’t like seeing you flirt with other men, though! That will hurt him even more.

5. Disrespect Him

5 disrespect him

If you want to hurt a Libra man, disrespect him. Be openly rude to him and make it clear that you have absolutely no respect for him.

Your Libra man will feel disrespected if you constantly interrupt and talk over him. If you ignore him while he’s talking and shift the focus of the conversation to yourself, he won’t like that at all.

He’ll also feel disrespected if you make condescending comments to him. Gossiping about a Libra man or spilling his secrets will show him that you also don’t respect him.

What happens when a Libra man is hurt because you’ve been disrespecting him? He will likely pull away from you. He won’t get outwardly upset or call you out for your behavior. He will not appreciate your disrespectful behavior, though.

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6. Ignore Him

6 ignore him

Ignoring a Libra man is one of the easiest ways to hurt his feelings. If he likes you and wants your attention, he will be distraught if you ignore and avoid him.

Libra men want to be liked. They might not seem as attention-seeking as Leo men, but they do want the attention of people around them, especially those they like!

If you ignore your Libra man, he might think you don’t like him, which will bother him! If you’re his friend or partner and you intentionally ignore him, he’ll wonder what he did wrong.

You might notice that your Libra man makes a solid effort to get your attention when you ignore him. He may apologize if he thinks he did something wrong. If you continue to ignore him, he’ll be incredibly hurt.

7. Make Him Feel Guilty

7 make him feel guilty

If you want to know how to make a Libra man regret losing you, make him feel guilty. Remind him of everything he did wrong in your relationship. Tell others about what he did as well.

Making a Libra man feel guilty will hurt his feelings, especially if he finds out you’re intentionally guilt-tripping him.

A Libra man will naturally feel guilty if he upsets you or does something to hurt you. You can make him feel guilty even if he hasn’t done anything wrong by acting like he’s done something to upset you, though.

You can make him feel more guilty by refusing to accept his apology or forgive him, even for minor mistakes. Your Libra man will be hurt if you can’t let his mistakes go. He will feel guilty, and he’ll be hurt that you can’t forgive him.

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8. Push His Boundaries

8 push his boundaries

Libra men aren’t always good at setting boundaries with people. They are people-pleasers, and they don’t like conflict. A Libra man will still be hurt if you push against his boundaries, though.

If you know a Libra man has a specific boundary, and you push against it, that will hurt his feelings! He’ll be upset if he works up the courage to set a boundary with you, and you completely ignore it.

Constantly pushing a Libra man’s boundaries will make him think you don’t care about him. Don’t do this to get petty revenge because you will likely ruin your relationship.

When a Libra man is upset because you’ve been pushing boundaries, he might start to pull away from you. He may not directly confront or push you away, but he will try to protect himself.

9. Insult His Loved Ones

9 insult his loved ones

A Libra man will be hurt if you go after him, but you don’t always need to insult him to hurt his feelings. You can hurt him by insulting his loved ones instead.

If your Libra partner introduces you to his friends and family and you’re rude, that will hurt his feelings. If you insult the people he cares about most, he’ll be more hurt than if you insult him directly.

Do Libra men forgive easily? Many of them do. A Libra man won’t be as quick to forgive you if you hurt his loved ones, though. Be careful if you go after his loved ones because you might ruin your relationship.

A Libra man is more likely to stand up to you if you insult his loved ones, so watch out for that! You’ll hurt him, but he won’t just sit back and let you do that.

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10. Ignore His Needs

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Ignoring a Libra man will hurt his feelings. Ignoring his needs and completely neglecting him will hurt him deeply as well.

Be careful when you ignore your Libra man’s needs, though. Your relationship might not come back from this, especially if your Libra man has discussed his needs with you and you still refuse to meet them.

A Libra man’s weakness is his inability to ask for what he needs from the people around him. If your Libra man does discuss his needs with you or directly asks you for something, and you ignore him, he will be upset.

Your Libra man will believe you don’t care about him when you ignore his needs. Ignoring his needs while expecting him to meet yours will upset him even more.

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4 Comments Add one

  1. Not paying attention to your Libra man’s needs is a risky move. Ignoring him might make him feel unimportant, and that’s not a good road to take in any relationship.

  2. Flirting with others? That’s a surefire way to create unnecessary drama. It’s important to respect boundaries in a relationship, or you risk hurting the one you care about.

  3. Criticizing your Libra man, especially in public, is a bad idea. I once made that mistake, and let me tell you, it took a while for him to get over it. Communication is key, folks!

  4. Disrespecting your Libra man? No way! Even if you have disagreements, maintaining respect is crucial. I’ve found that expressing my opinions without being rude goes a long way.

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