A distant Libra man can mean a lot of things! He might need some time alone or be entirely pulling away from you.
Don’t freak out when your Libra man is distant, though. It’s not always the end of the world, so don’t assume the worst.
Why is your Libra man acting distant? Some Libra men have trouble opening up, so he might distance himself because of that. He may be trying to avoid confrontation or hiding his emotions.
A distant Libra man might want to be alone. He may be thinking things over or trying to calm down after an argument. He might be upset with you, and he needs some space.
The worst-case scenario is that your Libra man’s feelings have changed, or he’s completely lost interest. Do not immediately jump to that conclusion without proof, though!
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He’s Thinking Things Over
A Libra man pulling away is sometimes just a sign that he’s thinking things over. Libra men are notoriously indecisive and take a long time to make significant decisions!
If your Libra man is suddenly distant after you ask him about moving in together or taking another significant step in your relationship, he may carefully consider the situation.
Your Libra man doesn’t want to make a decision impulsively. He doesn’t want to potentially make the wrong decision, so he will want to think things over before he gives you an answer.
A Libra man might also need to think things over if you two argue or something goes wrong in your relationship. He’ll need to consider whether or not he wants to continue things with you, so he might be distant while he thinks about that.
If your Libra man is thinking things over, let him be. He’ll talk to you when he’s ready and ask for help if he genuinely cannot make a decision.
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He Wants to Be Alone
If your Libra man is suddenly distant, he may want to be alone. While many Libra men are social and enjoy being around others, they still get stressed and overwhelmed if they never get time to themselves.
Your Libra man will want space sometimes, even if he loves being with you. He won’t always ask for that space, though.
Libra men tend to be non-confrontational. They don’t always stand up for themselves or ask for what they need. If a Libra man wants to be alone, he might seem like he’s ignoring you suddenly.
If you think your Libra man needs space, give it to him. You can check in to ensure he’s okay, but don’t push anything. When he is ready to talk, tell him he can ask for space when needed.
He Might Be Hiding His Emotions
Some Libra men are emotionally distant. Even if they want to open up and get close to people, that can be difficult for them sometimes!
Libra men don’t always like expressing what they consider to be “negative” emotions. If your Libra man feels angry or sad, he might distance himself and hide from you until he feels better.
A Libra man won’t always ask for support. He doesn’t want to burden other people or for them to think poorly of him because of how he feels or expresses his emotions.
If you think your Libra man hides his emotions, encourage him to open up. Remind him that you still love him, even if he’s going through a difficult time. Offer support and then actually listen to him if he does open up.
Focus on building trust with your Libra man, too. That will help him open up instead of becoming distant when feeling bad.
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He’s Avoiding Confrontation
One of the keys to understanding a distant Libra man is knowing he hates confrontation. Libra men might enjoy friendly debates but try to avoid confrontation whenever possible.
Your Libra man probably isn’t going to tell you immediately if you do something to upset him. If you say something insensitive, he might just try to ignore it instead of calling you out.
If you frequently do things that bother your Libra man, he’s likely to distance himself instead of telling you something is wrong.
Try to encourage your man to address issues with you, though. Avoiding confrontation doesn’t mean that nothing is wrong. It just means that he’s ignoring the things that are wrong and pulling away because of them.
If you think your Libra man is avoiding confrontation, talk to him! Remind him that you can only fix something if you know what’s wrong.
He’s Upset with You
Your Libra man might act distant when he’s upset with you. Instead of letting you know what’s wrong, he’s more likely to pull away.
A Libra man isn’t always being non-confrontational when he does this, though that’s part of the reason. Your Libra man might also give the silent treatment intentionally, hoping you’ll notice he’s upset.
Your Libra man may want time to calm down before talking to you. If he’s actively still angry and upset, he probably won’t be able to have a productive conversation with you.
If you’re not sure what to do when a Libra man pulls away, consider reaching out to apologize. If you think he may be upset with you, tell him you care about him and try to make things right.
If your Libra man seems upset, but you honestly have no idea why, talk to him. Let him know that you can tell something is wrong but that he’ll have to speak up so that you can fix the issue.
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He Needs to Calm Down
If your Libra man disappears and comes back after arguments, he likely needs to calm down. He may temporarily act distant while calming down and preparing to speak with you.
Taking time to calm down before having a serious discussion can be a good thing! Your Libra man will likely do this, even if he is better about having confrontations and letting you know when something is wrong.
A Libra man wants to be calm during an intense discussion. If he’s crying or unable to control his rage, he likely can’t get his point across or have a productive conversation with you.
If you think your Libra man is acting distant because he needs time to calm down, give him space. Let him know that communication is open, but don’t push anything.
He’s Afraid to Open Up
Your Libra man might act distant with you if he’s afraid of opening up. If he’s worried about how you’ll react to certain secrets of his, or he has trouble trusting you in general, he’ll distance himself.
Some Libra men are worried about opening up to anyone. This isn’t always a sign that your Libra man doesn’t trust you. He may have trouble trusting anyone.
If your Libra man is afraid to open up to you because you’re judgmental, that is something you’ll need to work on! He will continue to distance himself instead of opening up if he’s worried you won’t react well.
Sometimes, the best way to deal with a Libra man ignoring you is to encourage and reassure him. If he’s afraid to open up, you shouldn’t pressure him, but you should let him know that you care about him and won’t judge him when he opens up.
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His Feelings Have Changed
If your Libra man is hot and cold, that may be a sign that he’s confused about his feelings or that his feelings for you might be changing.
If your Libra man is suddenly distant, his feelings for you might have changed. This could be positive or negative, depending on your current relationship with your Libra man.
Your Libra friend might act distant if he develops a crush on you, especially if he thinks you don’t feel the same way. He might not want you to notice that his feelings have changed for you.
Your Libra partner will also pull away if he falls out of love with you. He will become increasingly distant, though it might take him a while to break up with you. He might hope you’ll end things so he doesn’t have to.
He’s Losing Interest in You
A Libra man’s silent treatment is sometimes a sign that he’s losing interest in you. Don’t always assume that he’s lost interest just because he acts distant for a few days, though.
If you’re doing everything you can to get a Libra man’s attention, and he continues to pull away and act distant, he may no longer be interested in you. Something may be wrong if you frequently reach out, and he won’t talk to you.
Libra men won’t always be direct when they lose interest in someone. If you two have only been talking for a short time, or you’ve just been on a couple of dates, he might ghost you instead of saying anything.
You’ll know that your Libra man has lost interest because he’ll continue to distance himself. He won’t get upset if you never reach out, either. He’ll be glad if he can pull away without having to confront you.
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My Libra man can be quite the puzzle when he’s distant. I’ve learned that giving him space to think things over is crucial. They’re not impulsive decision-makers, and I’ve noticed he opens up more after some quiet reflection.
Sometimes, my Libra friend goes silent when things aren’t right. I’ve found that calmly addressing the issue is the key. Short and clear conversations work wonders, no need for unnecessary drama.
When my Libra guy wants to be alone, I respect that. We all need our space, right? I check in, but I let him recharge. It’s fascinating how taking that time benefits our relationship in the long run.
A distant Libra man might be avoiding confrontation. I’ve noticed my partner prefers a peaceful approach, so we’ve created a safe space to discuss concerns. It’s about fostering open communication without pressure.
Disagreements happen, but my Libra man tends to pull away if he’s upset. Instead of guessing, I’ve learned to address the issue directly. It’s about acknowledging the problem and finding a solution together.
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