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What’s Behind Cancer Man’s Silent Treatment? Find Out!

Updated November 17, 2024

There are many potential reasons behind a Cancer man’s silent treatment. Sometimes, he’s upset with you. Other times, he’s overwhelmed and not speaking to anyone in general.

Your Cancer man might use the silent treatment to get your attention. He’s not always trying to actually push you away.

Cancer men are sensitive, emotional people. A Cancer man might give you the silent treatment if you upset him or he’s angry with you. He may also go quiet if he’s overwhelmed.

Sometimes, the silent treatment is used because your Cancer man doesn’t want to burden you with his emotions. Other times, he’s trying to get your attention with his silence!

If you’ve been neglectful lately, a Cancer man might go silent on you. He’ll also do this if he wants to be left alone, though. It can be hard to tell if he needs comfort or space.

He’s Sensitive

he's sensitive

Why do Cancer men give the silent treatment? Cancer men tend to be sensitive and emotional people. They don’t always handle those emotions well, though!

If your Cancer man feels out of sorts, he might give you the silent treatment. He’ll do this if you’re the one who upset him, but he may also do it if he’s feeling moody in general.

It’s easy to upset a sensitive Cancer man, too. He might give you the silent treatment if you make an insensitive remark or if he’s feeling more sensitive than usual.

A Cancer man might not even know why he withdraws from the people around him sometimes! If he’s feeling particularly sensitive and emotional, he may keep his distance until he feels better.

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You’ve Upset Him

you've upset him

Sometimes, when a Cancer man ignores you, that’s a sign you’ve upset him. If you already know that you said something insensitive recently, this is likely why your Cancer man is giving you the silent treatment.

You won’t always know that you’ve upset your Cancer man, though. He won’t typically tell you directly that you’ve done or said something to hurt his feelings.

A Cancer man might give the silent treatment because he wants you to notice he’s upset. Instead of telling you something is wrong, he’ll avoid you and act moody until you reach out.

If you think you’ve done something to upset your Cancer man, reach out to apologize. Let him know you care about him, too.

Once he’s calmed down, encourage him to directly tell you what the problem is when you upset him. Remind him that you don’t want to hurt him on purpose and that you need to know when you do something wrong.

He’s Overwhelmed

he's overwhelmed

When a Cancer man pulls away, it might be a sign that he’s overwhelmed. If he’s giving you the silent treatment and you know a lot is going on in his life, you might not be the problem.

Some Cancer men are more introverted than others. They might enjoy being around their inner circle, but too much socializing can be overwhelming and stress them out.

If your Cancer man is giving everyone the silent treatment, he’s likely overwhelmed. Check-in with mutual friends. If he’s ignoring them, he probably needs a break from socializing!

If you think your Cancer man might be overwhelmed, give him space. You can reach out to express concern, but don’t keep bothering him. He’ll stop giving you the silent treatment once he’s had a chance to relax and calm down.

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He’s Mad at You

he's mad at you

Your Cancer man will give you the silent treatment when he’s mad at you. If he’s avoiding you after an argument, he’s probably still angry!

The best way to get your Cancer man to stop his silent treatment is to apologize. If you already know what you did wrong, own up to it. If you don’t know what you did wrong, but you think he’s mad, you should be honest about that.

A Cancer man won’t always tell you he’s mad at you. He might give the silent treatment and expect you to realize what’s wrong. If you genuinely can’t figure it out, tell him that. Say you’re willing to apologize but need to know what’s wrong.

When a Cancer man is done with you for good, he might not respond to your apology. If he’s just mad and needs time to calm down, though, he’ll let you know.

He Doesn’t Want to Be a Burden

he doesn't want to be a burden

Sometimes, a Cancer man gives the silent treatment when he’s feeling upset because he doesn’t want to burden you with his feelings.

If a Cancer man feels down, he might ignore the people around him. He’s not doing this because he’s upset with them. He’s doing it because he doesn’t want to bother or bring them down with his bad mood.

If you want to know how to get a Cancer man to talk to you, remind him that he isn’t a burden. Let him know that you will gladly support and comfort him. Encourage him to open up to you.

His silent treatment is not always a sign that you have done anything wrong. Sometimes, your Cancer man is just in a bad mood. You can encourage him to talk to you, but he might not until he’s feeling better.

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He’s Jealous

he's jealous

Your Cancer man might give you the silent treatment if you make him jealous. He won’t always lash out or get mad at whoever he’s jealous of. He’ll get upset with you.

If you make your Cancer man jealous on purpose, he’ll give you the silent treatment. He won’t appreciate you toying with his emotions like that!

He might still ignore you even if you haven’t intentionally made him jealous, though. If you get a little too friendly with a male friend, or he genuinely thinks someone else is flirting with you, he might distance himself.

How long will a Cancer man stay mad if he’s ignoring you because he’s jealous? He will likely stop once you’ve reassured him there’s nothing to be jealous about! Remind him of how much you care about him, and that might be enough to get his attention.

He Needs Time Alone

he needs time alone

A Cancer man might give you the silent treatment if he needs some alone time. Cancer men might get a reputation for being clingy, but even they need time away from the people they love.

You might not always know how to react to a Cancer man’s silent treatment. Sometimes, it’s a sign that he needs space. Other times, he needs you to reach out!

The best thing to do is directly ask if your Cancer man wants to be alone. Remind him that you’re there for him if he needs you, but offer to give him space. If he says he wants space, respect that.

If you’ve been spending every waking moment with your Cancer man, and he suddenly gives you the silent treatment, he likely needs space. Give him some time alone, and he’ll stop ignoring you.

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He Needs Reassurance & Comfort

he needs reassurance & comfort

Sometimes, when a Cancer man ignores you, he needs reassurance and comfort. He won’t always ask for it, though.

Your Cancer man might give you the silent treatment because he wants you to notice something is wrong. He’ll continue ignoring you until you reach out to reassure or check in with him.

If your Cancer man disappears after intimacy, he might need some reassurance. He may think that something went wrong if you didn’t react the way he wanted. He might think you two moved too fast.

Give him the reassurance he needs, and he’ll stop ignoring you. Remind him to talk to you instead of pulling away. Comfort him and let him see that he didn’t make a mistake.

Encourage your Cancer man to ask for reassurance. Let him know that you can’t read his mind! Show that you’re willing to help, but tell him you need him to ask for what he needs.

He’s Stressed Out

he's stressed out

When a Cancer man ignores your text, that might be a sign he’s stressed out. If he’s got a lot going on in his life, he may give the silent treatment without actually realizing he’s doing it.

A Cancer man might pull away from everyone when he’s stressed. If he’s ignoring your texts and calls, your Cancer man may not be doing it on purpose. He might just be trying to avoid whatever is stressing him out.

Offer to help your Cancer man relax. See if there is anything you can do to take some of the weight off his shoulders. Do some extra chores or run some errands for him. That may get him to stop ignoring you.

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He Feels Neglected

he feels neglected

If your Cancer man disappears and reappears as soon as you give him some attention, then he might be feeling neglected. The silent treatment is sometimes a sign that you have been ignoring him.

The silent treatment is sometimes the only way your Cancer man knows to get your attention. If you’ve been busy and haven’t been spending time with him, he might withdraw and start to ignore you completely.

Your Cancer man won’t always ask for more attention, even if that’s what he needs. Instead, he’ll stop paying attention to you. He’ll ignore you the same way he thinks you’re ignoring him.

If you think this is the issue, reach out! Remind your Cancer man that you care about him, and try to start spending more time with him.

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  1. Wow, your insights about Cancer men are spot-on! I’ve noticed that when my Cancer guy gets overwhelmed, he really needs his space. It took me a while to realize that giving him that alone time actually strengthens our connection. Thanks for shedding light on this aspect!

  2. I don’t always agree with every point, but your article captures the essence well. Sometimes, the silent treatment is a tricky dance between needing space and wanting reassurance. I appreciate the honesty in acknowledging that not all disagreements are explicitly communicated.

  3. Your insights about Cancer men’s sensitivity are so true! I’ve experienced the silent treatment when I unknowingly upset him. Learning to read those subtle cues has improved our communication. Understanding his need for reassurance has been a game-changer in our relationship.

  4. I’ve been following your astrology articles, and I must say, your take on Cancer men is enlightening! The part about making them jealous and the silent treatment really hit home for me. It’s fascinating how they express their emotions. Keep the unique perspectives coming!

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