10 Clear Signs Your Cancer Man is Not Interested!

When a Cancer man isn’t interested in you, he won’t act like his usual caring self. He will seem cold and distant instead of warm and affectionate.

A Cancer man who isn’t interested will cancel plans if he bothers to make any with you in the first place. He won’t respond to your messages or reach out to speak to you.

You’ll know he’s not interested if he doesn’t care when you flirt with others. If he keeps secrets and isn’t curious about you, he’s not interested in getting to know you better.

1. He Cancels Plans

A Cancer man’s rejection isn’t always direct. Instead of outright telling you he’s not interested, he’ll do things like cancel plans to show you he doesn’t want to spend time with you.

If your Cancer man was interested but has lost interest, one of the first signs will be that he starts to cancel any plans you made. If you previously had a date scheduled, he’ll cancel it for seemingly no reason and decline to reschedule.

A Cancer man who is interested in you might have to cancel plans occasionally, but he won’t make a habit of it. If something comes up, he’ll try to reschedule. If he cancels and makes no attempt to reschedule, he might not be interested.

If you notice that your Cancer man cancels all your plans and doesn’t try to make new ones, he’s not interested. He might not be direct about that, but it’s true.

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2. He Never Responds to Your Messages

When a Cancer man ignores you consistently, that’s a sign he’s uninterested. If he leaves all your messages on read, no matter what you say to him, he likely doesn’t want to talk to you.

A Cancer man missing a couple of messages doesn’t mean anything, especially if he’s not a consistent texter. If he never responds to your messages, that’s a sign he’s probably not interested.

A Cancer man who was interested in you would try to keep in contact with you. Even if he didn’t like texting, he’d try to call and make plans with you in person. He wouldn’t ignore every single text message you sent, either.

If he always leaves you on read, your Cancer man doesn’t want to reply. Take that as a sign he’s not interested.

3. He’s Cold & Distant

If your Cancer man is sending mixed signals, he might be hot and cold. If he’s genuinely not interested in you and doesn’t want to seem like he is, he’ll always be cold and distant.

Cancer men usually aren’t cold, even toward strangers. They are warm and inviting. Even if a Cancer man is shy, he’ll usually still be kind toward everyone he meets.

If your Cancer man treats you coldly, he’s not interested. Pay close attention to how he treats others compared to you. If he’s friendly and warm with everyone else but cold and distant to you, he doesn’t like you.

Even a shy Cancer man will warm up to you pretty quickly if he’s interested. If he’s cold and always remains that way, he is not interested.

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4. He’s Not Curious About You

One of the signs a Cancer man is not interested is that he’s not curious about you. A Cancer man who was interested in you would likely ask many questions about you and show interest in getting to know you better.

If your Cancer man shows no interest in getting to know you, he’s not playing hard to get. He genuinely doesn’t like you. He doesn’t care to get to know you better.

A Cancer man who completely ignores you when you talk about yourself isn’t interested in you. If he were interested, he’d ask you about yourself and your hobbies. He’d actively listen whenever you talked about things that excited you.

If your Cancer man doesn’t seem interested in getting to know you, move on. Find someone who is curious about you!

5. He’s Not Affectionate

If your Cancer man is not affectionate toward you, that’s a sign he’s likely not interested. If you’ve known one another for a while, and he shows zero affection, he doesn’t feel the same you feel.

Some Cancer men take a little while to warm up to someone new, but most of them are pretty affectionate people! A Cancer man will likely hug you in greeting if he’s at least friendly toward you.

If he’s not interested and wants to make that clear, he will keep his distance. He won’t stand close to you when you’re talking, and he definitely won’t hug you when he sees you.

When a Cancer man pulls away and declines your affection, that’s also a sign he’s not interested. He won’t show you affection, and he won’t like it when you show it to him, either.

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6. He’s Not Helpful

One of the signs a Cancer man doesn’t like you is that he’s not helpful. If he were interested in you, or at least wanted to be friends, he’d help you out when you needed it.

If your Cancer man always seems to ignore your requests for help, he’s not interested. If he avoids you whenever you need assistance, he probably doesn’t like you, either.

Cancer men are typically very helpful people. They’ll help acquaintances and coworkers, not just their loved ones. If your Cancer man refuses to help you, he doesn’t like you.

A Cancer man who was interested in you would reach out whenever you needed help. He’d drop everything to assist you if you were genuinely in need. If he completely ignores you instead, he’s not interested at all.

7. He Doesn’t Care About Your Interests

What makes a Cancer man lose interest? There are many reasons why a Cancer man might lose interest in you. If you two have nothing in common, that could explain his lack of interest.

If your Cancer man already likes you, he’ll care about your interests. Even if he doesn’t share all of them, he’ll want to hear about them. Learning about things that make you happy will please him.

If your Cancer man doesn’t care about your interests, he’s likely not interested in you. If he ignores you whenever you talk about things you like and never asks about your hobbies, he probably doesn’t like you.

A Cancer man who is interested in you will ask about your interests. He’ll be happy to chat with you about things you like. If he doesn’t seem to care, he’s not into you.

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8. You’ve Never Met His Friends

When a Cancer man is done with you for good, he’ll try to keep you from interacting with other people in his life. If he was previously interested but no longer is, he won’t want you to meet his friends or anyone else important to him.

A Cancer man who is interested in you will want to incorporate you into the rest of his life. He’ll have no issue introducing you to his friends, especially if he’s considering dating you.

If your Cancer man isn’t interested, he’ll make no attempt to introduce you to other people in his life. He might even try to actively keep you from meeting anyone he knows because he won’t want to have mutual friends.

If you’ve known a Cancer man for a while and you’ve never met any of his friends, he doesn’t like you. He’s uninterested and likely wishes you’d get the hint.

9. He Keeps Secrets

If your Cancer man is suddenly distant and starts becoming more and more secretive, that’s a sign he’s lost interest. He doesn’t want you to get to know him better, and he’s closing himself off.

Cancer men typically wear their hearts on their sleeves. If they’re interested in someone, they’ll make it easy to get to know them. A Cancer man who likes you will tell secrets and open up to you more.

If your Cancer man is completely secretive and won’t tell you anything about himself, he’s not interested. If he’s secretive about things that he usually has no issue revealing, he doesn’t like you.

A Cancer man being more secretive than usual is a sign something is wrong. If he’s so secretive that you barely know a thing about him, he’s not interested in you.

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10. He Doesn’t Care When You Flirt

If your Cancer man just wants to be friends, he might be kinder than if he disliked you. He might still let you get to know him. He’ll still spend time with you.

However, you’ll know he doesn’t want anything more than friendship because your Cancer man won’t care when you flirt with other people.

If a Cancer man were interested in you, he’d get jealous when you flirted with others, especially if you did so in front of him. If he doesn’t seem to care at all when you flirt with someone else, he’s not interested.

Your Cancer man will brush you off when you try to flirt with him, too. It’s not that he’s oblivious. He knows you’re flirting with him, but he doesn’t want you to. He’ll ignore your attempts at flirting, and he definitely won’t flirt back.