Mastering Mind Games with Your Cancer Man

If you think a Cancer man is playing mind games with you, turn things around on him. Don’t let him toy with your emotions-toy with his.

Play on your Cancer man’s insecurities. Bring out his jealous side by flirting with others or refusing to label your relationship with him. Manipulate the way others think of him as well.

Make your Cancer man doubt his intuition. Constantly question his intentions and make him so uncomfortable that he doesn’t know what to think. Spill his secrets and use them against him.

Toy with His Emotions

If a Cancer man is playing you, don’t let it get to you. Instead, toy with his emotions and see how he likes it.

Cancer men are incredibly sensitive. They are some of the most emotional people you will ever meet, and it is honestly pretty easy to toy with their emotions.

If you and your Cancer man are close, or used to be, it will be easier to mess with his emotions. If you already know what makes him sad, how to bring out his jealous side, or what frustrates him, you can use that knowledge against him.

Pretending to be serious about a Cancer man when you’re not will also play with his emotions. Invalidating his feelings and brushing them aside will mess with his head, too. Telling him that he’s wrong to feel how he feels will get to him.

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Play on His Insecurities

You can easily mess with a Cancer man and play mind games with him by playing on his insecurities.

If you already know your Cancer man’s specific insecurities, it will be easy to get to him. If you know he’s insecure about certain aspects of his appearance, you can criticize them and pick at them.

Many Cancer men are insecure about their relationships, too. They fear being hurt and abandoned by the people they love. Play on this insecurity if you want to mess with a Cancer man.

Distancing yourself from a Cancer man who has abandonment issues will mess with his head. If you know he’s insecure about the people around him leaving him, start to pull away.

If you’re not close to your Cancer man, you can convince him that other people are pulling away from him.

Make Others Lose Trust in Him

If your Cancer man is playing the victim, turn things around on him. Talk to other people about things he’s done to mess with you. Make people lose trust in him if you want to mess with his head.

How can you make others lose trust in a Cancer man? If he’s ever lied to them about something, call him out. If you know he’s exaggerated certain things or been dishonest in any way, tell others about that.

You can also make others lose trust in a Cancer man by making them doubt him. Even if he hasn’t outright lied about something, call his intentions into question.

It will mess with a Cancer man if many people suddenly doubt him and no longer trust him. He’ll start to wonder if he’s doing something wrong, especially if he doesn’t know you’re behind it.

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Refuse to Label Your Relationship

One of the signs a Cancer is playing you is that he will refuse to label your relationship. Turn his tricks around on him and refuse to call your relationship what it is if you want to mess with him.

It will mess with a Cancer man if you two are clearly dating, but you won’t call him your boyfriend. If he’s only seeing you, it will mess with his head if you refuse to label your relationship as an exclusive one.

Your Cancer man can respect your boundaries if you want to go slow. He’ll be incredibly confused if you don’t talk about your relationship. He’ll be hurt if you won’t call it what it is and instead mess with his emotions.

Be careful when doing this, of course. Eventually, your Cancer man will get fed up with being used, and he’ll leave if you won’t commit or label what you have with him.

Bring Out His Jealous Side

Cancer men have a jealous side. If you want to mess with your Cancer man and play mind games with him, purposely try to bring that side of him out.

How can you make a Cancer man jealous? If you know he’s interested in you, you can easily make him jealous by showing interest in other men. Flirt in front of him, or talk about how great a male friend of yours is.

You can also make a Cancer man jealous by flaunting your successes when he’s having a bad time. If he just lost his job, talk about how incredible your career is.

If you bring out a Cancer man’s jealous side, he might lash out, so be careful! You’ll mess with him, but you’ll also make him moody, and that can be difficult to deal with.

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Manipulate Him

Are Cancer men manipulative? They definitely can be! If you want to outsmart a Cancer man, you have to turn things around and manipulate him before he can manipulate you.

If you want to know how to manipulate a Cancer man, use some of his tricks on him. Guilt-tripping him and making him take the blame, even if you are the one who did something wrong, is an excellent way to manipulate his emotions.

Any time your Cancer man tries to call out your behavior, turn it around on him. Tell him you only act this way because of something he’s done. Convince him that it’s all in his head, or make him believe he’s the one to blame.

Don’t let your Cancer man manipulate you. Instead, turn things around on him. Manipulate the situation so that others think he’s the one in the wrong, and that will mess with him.

Spill His Secrets

When you walk away from a Cancer man, that will hurt him. If you spill his secrets after leaving him, that will mess with his head and hurt him even more.

If a Cancer man tells you a secret, he’ll expect you to keep it! Even if you two break up or end your friendship, he won’t tell anyone your secrets, and he’ll be shocked if you spill his.

Spilling a Cancer man’s secrets will mess with his head. It will also completely break his trust, so be careful! If you want to get some petty revenge or mess with him a bit, you might not want to try this tactic.

Threatening to divulge a Cancer man’s secrets will also mess with his head. Even if you don’t tell them, the thought that you might tell someone will get to him.

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Mess with His Intuition

If you want to know how to win against a Cancer man, mess with his intuition. Make him doubt his thoughts and feelings. That will mess with his head more than anything else.

Cancer men typically have good intuition, but it’s easy to convince them they don’t. If your Cancer man has a gut feeling about something, convince him he’s wrong. When he says something doesn’t feel right, tell him he’s being ridiculous.

If someone he trusts doubts his intuition, he’ll start to doubt it, too! This will mess with your Cancer man, and he’ll begin to question himself even when you’re not there to cast doubt on how he feels.

Constantly Question His Intentions

Do Cancer men play mind games? Some of them do. Whether your Cancer man is playing with you or not, questioning his intentions and accusing him of messing with you will get to him.

If you’re constantly questioning a Cancer man’s intentions, he might start to doubt them even if he’s not doing anything wrong. If you accuse him of playing you or manipulating you when he’s genuinely not, he’ll wonder what he’s doing wrong.

It will get under your Cancer man’s skin if you always act like he has ulterior motives. If you genuinely cannot accept any kindness from him without asking what he wants in return, that will mess with him.

Your Cancer man will start to wonder why you don’t trust him. He’ll likely blame himself, even if you genuinely are messing with him.

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Make Him Uncomfortable

If a Cancer man is already feeling uncomfortable, it will be easier to mess with him. If you want to throw him off his game and make him easier to manipulate and play with, push him out of his comfort zone.

If you want to know how to hurt a Cancer man and make him feel uncomfortable, push his boundaries. Don’t fully step over them, but get close. This will mess with him and make it easier to mess with him in other ways.

A Cancer man who is uncomfortable might not notice that you’re trying to manipulate him. His intuition may be thrown off if he’s already in an awkward situation. He will be less likely to pick up on the fact that you’re toying with him on purpose.

Talk about topics you know make your Cancer man uncomfortable. Bring him around people that make him uncomfortable. All of this will mess with his head.