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Handling Your Angry Aquarius Man – Expert Tips Inside!

Updated November 5, 2024

If an Aquarius man is angry, he’ll likely need space. Remain calm and be patient with him. Comfort him, but don’t push anything.

An Aquarius man’s temper can be unpredictable. Respect his boundaries, and don’t try to make him talk until he’s ready.

Aquarius men don’t always seem like they have tempers, but they do. Some can control them better than others, but their rage can be unpredictable and chaotic.

When an Aquarius man is angry, remain calm. Ask if he wants space, then give it to him. Be patient, do not argue with him, and don’t get defensive.

You can comfort an Aquarius man by doing some favors for him. Don’t cling to him or try to make him talk, though. You can offer to listen when he’s ready but only offer advice if he asks.

Remain Calm

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You must remain calm if you want to know how to resolve conflict with an Aquarius man. If you are also angry, you won’t be able to work through anything with him!

Seeing how calm you are can sometimes make an Aquarius man realize he’s going overboard. If he’s lost his temper, but you are a calm and patient presence, that might help him calm down, too.

Even if you can’t get him to calm down, remaining calm yourself will help the situation. If you also lose your temper, you two will likely end up arguing.

Even if he wasn’t angry at you, to begin with, he’ll turn his anger on you if you act annoyed with him. Remain as calm as possible. If you can’t, you should take some time to calm down before dealing with your Aquarius man’s anger.

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Ask If He Wants Space

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If you aren’t sure how to deal with a moody Aquarius man, try asking if he needs space. Sometimes, he’ll want to calm down on his own.

Even the most social of Aquarius men might become an introvert when angry. Aquarius men who know they have wild tempers might retreat from everyone around them so they don’t end up saying or doing things they regret.

If your Aquarius man says he wants space, give it to him. Remind him that communication is open, and you’ll gladly listen to him vent or help calm him down, but you can leave him alone if that’s what he wants.

An Aquarius man might need some time alone to calm down. He may only want to discuss something once he’s had time to think things through by himself. If he wants space, respect that.

Be Patient with Him

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Try to be patient with him when an Aquarius man is upset. He might not act like his typical self. He may lash out and let his temper get out of control. Don’t let his temper get the best of you, though.

Being patient doesn’t mean you have to put up with bad behavior, of course. There’s usually no use addressing it while an Aquarius man is actively angry.

Instead of getting mad yourself when an Aquarius man is angry, take a deep breath. Show him kindness and compassion. Let him know you are there if he wants to discuss things.

Your Aquarius man will appreciate your patience. Once he’s calmed down, you two can talk about his temper. If he sees how patient and caring you can be, he might go to talk to discuss things before his temper gets out of control, too.

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Don’t Argue with Him

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If your Virgo man is already angry or upset, it’s best not to argue with him. Even if he’s acting ridiculous or he says something wrong, don’t bother correcting him. He won’t be in the right mindset to hear criticism.

When you make an Aquarius man mad by arguing with him, it’s usually best to stop if things get out of control. If he’s already lost his temper, end the argument. Don’t keep going, or you’ll both say things you regret.

Instead of arguing with him, give him space. Take some time away from your Aquarius man. You don’t need to agree with him or let him “win” whatever argument you were having, but end it for the time being.

You can’t have a rational discussion or debate with an angry Aquarius man. Save the issue for later when you’re both more calm.

Don’t Cling or Over-message Him

don't cling or over over him

If your Aquarius man is mad, don’t cling to him. If he wants to be alone, respect that. You won’t comfort him or calm him down by acting clingy.

Don’t over-text or call your Aquarius man if you think he’s angry. Even if you’re worried that he’s upset with you, you’ll make things worse if you continuously message him without waiting for a reply.

You might want to comfort your Aquarius man when he’s angry. If he’s angry at you, you may want to resolve things as quickly as possible. You won’t do that by acting clingy and pushy, though.

Instead, take a step back. You can reach out to offer support, but don’t keep sending messages or calling if your Aquarius man fails to reply. If you do that, you’ll likely annoy him more.

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Be Respectful of Boundaries

be respectful of boundaries

What makes an Aquarius man mad? An Aquarius man will get mad if you don’t respect his boundaries. If he’s been clear about his boundaries, and you cross them, you’ll make him angry.

Always be mindful of an Aquarius man’s boundaries if you want to avoid upsetting him, but also be aware of them if he’s already angry about something. You’ll make things worse if you cross a line.

If your Aquarius man says he wants space, respect that. If you know that he doesn’t like physical affection when he’s upset, resist the urge to hug him or try to hold his hand.

Do what your Aquarius man needs, not what you want. Even if you don’t understand a boundary, try to respect it. That will help your Aquarius man to calm down instead of frustrating him further.

Don’t Get Defensive

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Are Aquarius men aggressive? When an Aquarius man loses his temper, he can be! If you get defensive, you’ll likely make things worse, too.

If your Aquarius man is angry with you, you might be quick to defend yourself. If he’s upset because you made a mistake or said something insensitive, you may feel defensive, especially if you didn’t mean to make him angry.

Getting defensive will likely start an argument and make things worse. You want to calm your Aquarius man down, not make him angrier. You can talk things through once he’s calm.

You don’t need to agree with your Aquarius man or give in to what he wants. Just offer to talk about the matter later instead of rising to the bait when he starts to argue with you.

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Comfort Him with Acts of Service

comfort him with acts of service

How long do Aquarius men stay mad? That honestly depends on why they are angry. Most Aquarius men don’t hold grudges, though. They’ll calm down eventually. Certain things can help them to calm down faster, too.

Your Aquarius man might not always ask for support when mad, though. He might want space to calm down if he’s mad at you. If that’s the case, you won’t be able to offer physical comfort.

Instead, comfort him with acts of service. Soothe your Aquarius man’s anger and help him calm down by doing some favors for him. While he’s getting some alone time, you can clean the house or run errands.

If he’s frustrated, cook your Aquarius man dinner. Bring him some coffee and let him enjoy it alone. This will all help him calm down, and he’ll appreciate the effort.

Listen When He’s Ready

listen when he's ready

How do Aquarius men act when angry? Sometimes, your Aquarius man will retreat. He will likely want to talk about it at some point, though. Venting helps him to work through his anger.

Keep communication open with your Aquarius man when he’s angry. Give him space, and take time to calm down yourself, but make it clear that he can talk to you when he’s ready to.

If your Aquarius man needs to vent while angry, listen to him. If he’s angry at someone else, venting to you can help him calm down to have a more reasonable discussion with them later.

If he’s angry about something he can’t control, talking through it can help him calm down. Even if you can’t fix anything, listen. Knowing you care can soothe his anger.

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Only Offer Advice If He Asks

only offer advice if he asks

When an Aquarius man is mad, venting out his anger can help. Listen to him, but only offer advice if he asks you to.

An Aquarius man is not always looking for you to solve his problems. He might want to vent if he’s frustrated about something at work. If he’s mad at a friend, he may just want to tell you what’s going on.

If an Aquarius man wants advice about an issue, he’ll ask. If he doesn’t ask, assume he’s just venting to you because he needs someone to listen.

Don’t offer advice about how to deal with his anger, either. If he’s mad, he won’t always want to listen to ways to calm down or deal with his anger better. Save those conversations for after he calms down.

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  1. Being patient when dealing with an angry Aquarius man is key. Letting them cool off on their own terms can lead to more meaningful conversations later.

  2. Comforting an upset Aquarius man with acts of service can make a real difference. Small gestures like making dinner or running errands show that you care and want to help.

  3. Remaining calm is crucial when handling an angry Aquarius man. If you keep your composure, it might even influence him to reconsider the intensity of his anger.

  4. Respecting boundaries is essential in any relationship, especially when your Aquarius man is upset. Crossing those lines only adds fuel to the fire.

  5. While I may disagree on some points, overall, these tips are spot-on. It’s important not to get defensive and instead focus on finding common ground after the storm has passed.

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